I felt rather helpless today.
Just a few hours during lunch, i was having a simple casual conversation with some of my coursemates. Somehow the topic drifted to my fiancee. My friend asked what her main diet in US was i think. So without any thoughts i replied sausages. I could still remember my short conversation with my dearie a few days back on MSN, when she posted a few pictures of packets of big sausages that she got from Walmart ( this real big hyper mart in USA ).
I got pretty pissed actually when this friend of mine actually could link sausage with male genitals, and happily tried to joke about it and my fiancee( implied ) in a lewd way ( in what way i shall spare the readers of this blog, because i dont really feel comfortable when people try to joke like this about my kin )
I am fine with people calling me all sorts of weird names, because i am also like that, giving people weird nicknames. Doesn't matter if you call me monster, ugly boy or some porn shit. I've gotten used to such things.Its just some ways people around you try to lighten up things. That i understood. But how would you feel if i start making lewd or any jokes about your spouse / parents?
I had to pretend not to feel affected. But deep down in my heart i feel rather disguisted at the way some people can actually make jokes about people whom they never knew.
Jokes are fun. You can laugh it off and make your day ( maybe others as well in this context ).
But make sure no one is being undermined at the expense of your jokes.
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2 comments:
hmm .. perhaps the fren who commented was not understanding enough to consider this aspect...
remember my friend.. the law of karma points works 365 days a week... the fact that he make a remark means somehow somewhere sometime in his life, the law of karma points states that
" what you think about ... you attract "
In chinese we call it
" yin guo bao ying "
perhaps my personal comment is that you should tell him on the spot that its not nice to make fun of ones spouse / parents.
say it in a firm way .. and pause for a while then laugh it off..
This will save you the frustration of typing this blog post in the first place.
" What you think about in your mind all the time, you will attract it to your life "
Thats the law of attraction... because from the point your friend made that remark till the time you typed this post out. The strong thoughts of anger and pissed off sends a signal to the universe and this will be attracted back to you...
In short i mean
" More shit is going to happen unless we learn to get ride of negative thoughts and replace them with positive empowering ones."
those asses, see one kick one. See if they like to suck on fist n knees
LTA PATRIX
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